13 Evangelistic Phrases That Produce False Conversions

(article by Todd Friel)

Churches divide over carpet color, building additions and budgets. In the meantime, our fellow church members are going to hell by the boat load.

A.W. Tozer said, "It is my opinion that tens of thousands of people, if not millions, have been brought into some kind of religious experience by accepting Christ, and they have not been saved."

D. James Kennedy said, "The vast majority of people who are members of churches in America today are not Christians. I say that without the slightest contradiction. I base it on empirical evidence of twenty-four years of examining thousands of people."

Friend, we argue over so many petty things. May I suggest we have lost sight of the most important debate of all, "What is salvation?" My theology teaches that salvation happens when a man repents and places his trust in Jesus Christ (Acts 20:21).

I would like to present thirteen ways that we have re-defined how a person becomes a true convert. Have we done this intentionally? Certainly not. We have simply created lingo that has a grain of truth in Scripture, but it is so open to interpretation that the un-converted understand it in ways that lead to false conversions.

1. Make Jesus your Lord and Savior.....
We cannot make Jesus our Lord and Savior, He is our Lord and Savior. We are living in rebellion to Him and He commands us to repent and trust Him.

2. Ask Jesus into your heart.....
Does Jesus come into our hearts? Yes He does. The question is, "How does He get in there?" It is not by simply asking Him in; it is by repentance and faith.

3. Just believe in Jesus.....
The demons believe and they tremble. We must repent and trust.

4. You have a God-shaped hole in your heart and only Jesus can fill it.....
We have far more than a hole that needs to be filled so we can feel complete; we have a wretched, deceitful, sinful heart that needs cleansing. Repentance and faith applies the blood of the lamb for that cleansing.

5. Accept Jesus.....
Whoa. We need to accept Jesus? This is entirely backward. We need Jesus to accept us–and He will, if we repent and trust.

6. Make a decision for Jesus....
Decisional regeneration puts man in the driver's seat of salvation. When we repent and trust, Jesus decides to save us. That puts Him in the driver's seat…where He demands.

7. It is easy to believe....
While the formula of repentance and faith sounds simple, a complete surrendering of self in repentance is anything but easy. It's hard. Pride could be your stumbling block.

8. God loves you and has a wonderful plan for your life....
The only promises for the convert are trials, temptation and persecution. If that is how you define a wonderful life, fine. Otherwise we must command all men everywhere to repent and trust.

9. Come to Jesus just as you are....
We should come to Jesus just as the sinners we are, but He also expects a broken heart and contrite spirit demonstrated in repentance and faith.

10. Come to Jesus and you will receive forgiveness of sins and ________________ (fill in the blank with money, health, a healed marriage)....
Jesus didn't promise healed marriages; in fact He promised broken homes because we would divide when one member repents and trusts.

11. Come to Jesus and experience love, joy, peace....
Do we get the fruit of the Spirit upon conversion? Yes. But if we come seeking the gifts and not the giver, we will receive neither. Instead, we must repent and trust.

12. Jesus is the missing piece....
Um, no, the God of the universe is not the missing piece, He demands that He is the center of our lives when we repent and trust.

13. Jesus is better than fame and fortune....
That is an understatement, and frankly, it is insulting. Saying Jesus is better than money is like saying that a steak dinner is better than eating a dung hill. He defies comparison and we trivialize the Son of God. Instead, we should be pleading with all men everywhere to repent and trust.

If I showed up at your door with a can of grapefruit juice and a roll of paper towels and offered to change your oil, you would say, "No thanks." If we wouldn't let someone mess with our car using the wrong method, why do we allow the Gospel to be presented so ambiguously?

Would you let a doctor operate on your child who was "sort of" accurate? The salvation of men is far more important than an appendix.

I beg you to consider how you share the Gospel. You and I know what we are talking about when we use these phrases, but do the unregenerate? Is it possible that we have so many backsliders today because they never slid forward in the first place? Is it because they were never told that they must repent and trust?

If we are willing to debate shag verse plush in the fellowship hall, shouldn't we be more concerned about an issue that has eternal consequences?

"Unchurched"? May I Please Have the Definition?

There is a common idea around now that says that the church (as in the church service) must be for the unchurched. Many surveys have been taken and many books and blogs are written about this very subject, "How do we reach the unchurched?" Unchurched is new language. (My spell check in google docs keeps underlining it.) It used to be the church's mission was, "How do we reach lost sinners?" Now, "sinners" is changed to, "unchurched". If we stuck with the Biblical language of "sinners" then we would know we couldn't survey a sinner as to what they would want in a church service because words have meanings. Sinner means transgressor of the law. A sinner would be a breaker of God's law... a lawbreaker. So a person who is breaking God's law would be in rebellion against God. The Bible puts it like this... when we are in that sinful, carnal state...Romans 8:7 we are hostile to God and not subject to the law of God nor can be! So why in the world would we ask that person what they want in a church service? It can only be rebellion! I don't say this to be harsh or judgmental, it's how the language defines itself. It's not subject to my interpretation, it says what it says.

Let's define the word "church" and see if we can define "unchurched" from that. A modern definition of church is a body of Christian believers. The Greek word, from the original language of the New Testament, is Ekklesia, meaning "the called out ones". So from the modern and original language we can conclude that church means people who believe in Christ and have been called out [from the world]. So to define "unchurched" by putting the prefix 'un' before the word 'church' makes that word a body of not or non believers in Christ. So, even when you define this new word of unchurched correctly, again with no judgment or opinion, just letting the words speak for themselves, you can conclude that the unchurched is not who you should be asking how they want a church service to be. The unchurched would want non-church or not church. And that's exactly what they get... so call it something else.


Jesus defined how we were to reach lost sinners. He said (Matt. 28:19,20) GO make disciples of all nations. Go meaning to leave a place. You go out of (leave) your assembly or your church building and you go to all nations and teach them about repentance and faith in Christ. You do not prostitute the church to be friends with the world (James 4:4) because you make yourself the enemy of God. There is one Seeker that we should be sensitive to and that's the Father (John 4:23). If we want to figure out how to reach the "unchurched" who clearly are not seeking God (Romans 3:11) we'd better ask the One who died for the Church.